Mingli is a nice girl :D
Mavis is a nice girl :P
是我同意这句话“我们是那么喜欢长大变成大人，同时我们又是多么
是的！
有一点互相矛盾。小时后我们向快搞长大，跟深奥的是说我们长大时
你们是否注意到，“那么”和“多么” are carefully positioned.“那么”显示了我们多么想成长的意欲， 而“多么” 则 说明了变成大人有许多令人害怕的坏处。 这证明了becoming adults 比想成长的意欲来得更可怕。若这两个词倒转来用的话，整个句子的意思就会是相反的。（sounds bit strange thou..)
我认为大人和小孩之间有着很清晰的差异。小孩的责任比较少，却比较多嬉戏。在傻呵呵的当儿也不会感到羞愧。他们活在自己的娱乐界里，且唯一的‘敌人’就是功课。而身为full-fledged adult，不但身负匆匆重则，在许多领域上，比如爱情，经济等，都会有很大的压力。我们会被困在这vicious cycle of e earth etc etc...
如果要当真正的成年人，我们不因该有优质的想法。要成为成年人，是一件自然的事
Last 1 Dunnoe How to Phrase In Chinese >.<"
Yes I agree to the sentence “我们是那么喜欢长大变成大人，同时我们又是多么害怕变成大人。”Because its really true judging from my point of view.When we are young, we got so much restrictions.For example, we have to do homework and go home in time.We also keep thinking that money come easy and thus that if we are adults, we can get to buy anything we want.That really make us want to grow up fast. But in reality its not really true.As we become young adult, we get to know about the true adult world.We will have to work regularly just to earn money.We also have to experience a even tenser rat race which have alot more backstabbing, despicable people. Its either we top the race and become rich, or just barely survive in the race, working just to survive, or even worst, tumbling and falling in the race, entering a temporary poverty.Its already a stressful period entering the transition of young adulthood, thus we are scare of becoming adult.
And Yesh! It quite contradicting and ironic at first sight. We want to grow up fast but at the same time,we are also afraid of growing up.But if we want to write it more detailed , It will be "We want to grow up fast in our own ways but we are afraid to become what people describe adults to be" It a sad truth but if you examine the present humans closely, you will know what I am refering to.
And if you noticed,the "那么" and the “多么” are also carefully positioned. The "那么" shows how we wish to become adults, while the “多么” shows that there are alot of bad points becoming adults which we are afraid of. So it shows that we are more afraid of becoming adults then wanting to become adults. If the 2 phrase are exchanged, the meaning will be directly the opposite.
So I think there really a clear cut on the differences between adults and children.Being a children, we have lesser responsibilities, more fun, and can be silly without feeling much shame.We are also in our own fun mini world where the homework is our only enemies :D
While being a full-fledged adult, we will have alot of responsibilities, lesser fun and be stressed up on alot of areas, be it love,economic and etc.We will be trapped in the vicious cycle of the earth where we have alot of different enemies.
And in order to become full-fledged adult, we have to let go of our naive thoughts, and the rest will come naturally eventually. You cannot really choose when to enter adulthood, its a natural mechanism which activates unpredictablty in our bodies.
Summing up, I should talk about me. I do not really have that thinking before at all. I am not really afraid of entering adulthood at all. In fact, I am really happy to enter it. Although its sort of "Bad", I like it because life become more challenging, more interesting at this point. Last time, I felt that there are no meaning in living in this world. Its so boring and meaningless to follow the same routine to school everyday. And I have been thinking of what is our life worth? In the world population, you are just 0.0000000001% of it. If you die, who will acknowledge and know of your death? Counting your relatives it will be close to only 0.000000001% which is insignificant. We are just a small part of the world. Death come and people move on with lives as usual. You will not be remembered. But now, once I enter Junior College life, I feel alive and ready to rock again. My brain is being worked again! I love challenges. So I love growing up.
Time to make a difference and be remembered!
Remember this quote and follow your heart:
"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
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